Oprah "Fires Back" at Chris Brown?...

This is part of a discussion on the Huffington Post. The term "fires back" was used to gin up some ratings and hits, but there were really no fireworks here. Having said that I'm with Chris Brown on this one...Here were my thoughts on the overall coverage of the Chris/Rihana saga:

Bottom line, is that both Chris and Rihana were victims and that they BOTH have some responsibility for what happened. I know you don't want to hear it or admit it or that it's not politically correct, but it's true.It was well reported that Rihana was the initial "abuser" in the relationship and that she had a history of hitting the men whom she was involved with (this was reported by her family and you can find it easily on the gossip sites "Rihana Don't play").... The problem this time for Rihana is that she began this cycle with a KID who has a history of abuse in his household, watching his mother being abused. If the discussion was honest, then someone would have pointed out the fact that it's likely that Rihana "awakened the beast within". I wish Oprah would've at least pointed out that possibility.... The problem: whole discussion is that it presented as 'Men shouldn't hit women'. But then what if we have a gay couple; is domestic violence suddenly not as bad? The answer is, yes. This discussion should have addressed the abuse of weaker individuals by stronger individuals, irregardless of their gender. It also should've talked practically about things to do to avoid confrontations like the one that transpired, for example if you have an angry spouse and he OR SHE wants to get away from you to calm down, don't jump in their car demanding an argument... let them walk away... just some thoughts

Leading a Class Action Suit Against the Receptionist at my Wifes OB/GYN!!!

By: D Fin

This will serve as formal notice that I am suing the receptionist at LaKenya's OB / GYN (which stands for "Operating in Babies / Get Yours Next") office for false advertisement. At her last appointment, Ms. Alexa Something (I'm told by my lawyer that I don't really NEED her last name to sue her) told us that our next appointment (today) would be the GREAT REVEAL on our future pamper-filler - I MEAN - baby's gender. I managed to work my magic on my manager (I asked) and have the day on the bench, I made reservations at a highly exclusive restaurant (Taco Bell) and I made a little visit to Tiffany's (our friend Tiffany owed me $2.17) all in preparation of this day. 

Kenya sat patiently as the doctor made his corny jokes (so... how did you end up here, I bet it was his fault - woka woka woka) but my foot tapping was in over drive waiting to have the ultrasound. He thanked us for coming, and started talking about the next appointmnet. WHAT??? I SHOWERED FOR THIS APPOINTMENT - where's the great reveal??? Oh, what's that you say? We have another 3 weeks before we would have that ultrasound done and even then it's not done in this office it's done at doct - * I blacked out in rage *

So this brings me to my class action suit against this paper pusher that lied to me and the rest of you by the transitive property of mathematics. I'm demanding the following: 

$6.00 in parking validation
20 boxes of Good Humor Strawberry Shortcake ice cream - because they are so hard to find in bulk at our local Ralph's
3 coupons for the Crunch Wrap Supreme value meal at Taco Bell
and 2 million dollars

I assured LaKenya that I didn't tell TOO many people that we were finding out the gender today so if all 117 of you would sign the petition then I'm sure we can make this Alexa Something pay for our emotional pains and empty freezers. 

What In The Hell Did Hollywood Do To Wolverine?

I'm still "miffed" about Wolverine: It's not a bad movie in the sense that it's a typical popcorn flick... It is bad in the sense that Wolverine needs no Hollywood embellishment to be great.

I mean, think about it... Hollywood basically took a character that's been around for 40 years, one of the most popular characters in the history of comics and said... "Hey we're gonna 'fix' him" "we're gonna 'punch up' his story".... "instead of making him 5 ft 4in -his actual height- let's make him 6' 3" and "instead of him having that dirty, raspy, Clint Eastwood feel, let's clean him up so the audience can connect with his sensitive side"

Now, this is not Hugh Jackman's fault. In all likelihood, when he accepted the role of Wolverine in the original X-men movie, about a decade ago, he probably had no idea of who this character really is. His agent probably called him up and said:
"hey Hugh...baby. Fox is doing a 'live action' version of the popular children's comic the X-mas... I'm sorry X-Men with Halle Berry. I think it'd be fun for you"
I can't blame Hugh Jackman for saying "yes" to doing a fun movie with Halle Berry. I can't blame him for Marvel being so financially broken that it had to sell its soul to Twentieth Century Fox to stay afloat. Likewise, I can't blame him for the stupid intern-turned-creative executive-turned development executive, who never read the comic series and has never written a script, but feels they know all there is to know about story structure, as a result of their tutelage under the last intern-turned-creative executive-turned-development executive, who was fired because they kept developing movies that suck.

Hugh, in his defense, did the best he job he could with the character Wolverine, but there's only so much he could do. Just like, no matter how good of an actor he is, (probably the best) Daniel Day-Lewis can't play the role of Peter Parker. He Just doesn't fit. We may watch him, we may like him, but the chances of Hugh Jackman being to Wolverine, what Heath Ledger was to The Joker are slim.

But after that speil, Hugh isn't the real problem with this movie, so much as the writers are (and they're probably the hopeless victims of some punk development exec). They took too many liberties with the movie that they didn't have to. For example, no one really knows the real relationship between Sabertooh and Wolverine. It's been heavily suggested that they're bothers, but it's also been suggested that Sabertooh is Wolverine's father. If the authors of the comic choose to keep it a mystery, they why would the screenwriter feel that they have the liberty do otherwise. They could have suggested that they were brothers, without the hokie line 'we're brothers and we have to look out for each other'.

I can go on and on about other examples of liberties taken in the movie, but I'm already looking enough like a geek (you know, the kind who stay locked in their mother's basement playing online mystical quest games with avatars named Quagor the Blue Magician)... But one can't help but look at how The Dark Knight was received and feel a little shafted by the lazy writing, that was probably the fault of someone at the studio people thinking they're omniscient story tellers.

Here, they essentially reduced the most complex and tortured characters (next to Batman) in comics to Hanna Montanna, and no matter how many times Wolverine says 'god damn' in the movie, it still isn't enough to elevate the movie beyond the mental capacity of a 12 year old. They did the same thing with Spiderman (remember Tobey Maguire's dance routine in the last installment).

To date, Blade II stands as the best film adaptation of any Marvel character and that's a shame, because they could've had a real winner with this one. Just do a Wikipedia search on Wolverine and you'll be blown away by how much there is to work with and potential to make Wolverine "the movie" the Marvel equivalent of the Dark Knight..

BTW: A friend of mine challenged me to come up with someone who would've made a better Wolverine than Hugh Jackman... I came up with Russell Crowe, Gerard Butler and (the winner, we agreed was) Karl Urban...

How Many Atheists Does it Take to Survive an Earthquake?

By: Andy 

Recently, by random selection, I visited “The Friendly Atheist,” blog (Hemant Manta) {friendlyatheist.com}. This incident seemed very strange to me as I had just returned from Ethiopia where I saw the reproduction of the famous bones of “Lucy” (the crown jewel of ancient skeletons). At only 3 1/2 feet tall, Lucy was quite the cougar 3.2 million years ago, living a swinging lifestyle with chimpanzees in the trees of Africa. Anthropologists believe her promiscuity helped spread the the appearance of humans on planet earth (yet another argument for safe sex).

These two“athe-incidents” happening to me in such a short time frame seemed more than just mere chance (with all due respect to Charley D.). Might there be a cosmic purpose to me experiencing these two events firsthand? As you can imagine, all this and Darwin’s recent 200th birthday bash was enough to make me get up off the couch and walk upright to my computer, engaging my opposable thumbs and fingers to write this all down... READ MORE.

"You Sassin' Me, Boy?"..."No Sir, Boss"


The question: What is the dust-up between Michael Steele and Rush Limbaugh revealing about the role of blacks in the GOP and conservative movement?...

The answer: Everything the other 95 percent of blacks, who aren't republicans have been saying about republicans all along!

There's a reason that 95 of blacks voted for Barack Obama... There's a reason that the cameras kept cutting back to the same four blacks in the crowd at the republican convention... There's a reason that black republicans are about as rare as white tigers.... Simply put, we're not stupid!

I think that, by and large, most blacks have a racism radar. Sure, some people's radar is a little too sensitive, but for the most part it works well enough to alert us to certain things like when we're not truly welcomed in certain environments.... For some reason Michael Steel has chosen to ignore this radar, insisting that he knows something that the other 95 percent of black folks don't. As the newly elected chairman of the RNC, his charge was to enlighten us, to remove the wool from our eyes and light the pathway toward the one true movement that embraces freedom and liberty for all Americans, the one party that truly embraces the idea of a raceless, classless society.... The Republican Party fueled by the power of conservative principles!

How's that workin' out for you, Mr. Steele?
Well, after the events of this past week,(the whole dust-up between Steele and Limbaugh) I'd have to say not too well. In fact, I'd say that the events of this week will have two outcomes... 1) I think that it'll virtually cripple Steele's efforts to recruit blacks into the republican party... 2) I think it'll reveal to Steele that paper principles don't work in a real world with an ugly history of slavery and Jim Crow segregation.

In my humble, albeit observant, opinion Rush Limbaugh's tongue-lashing at Michael Steele rang with a sense of "You sassin me boy" sentiment. In other words, it felt as if he were telling Steele to know his place... In fact, that's literally what he was saying. The other thing that struck me was how vehemently indignant Rush was in his criticism of Michael Steele, as opposed to his criticism of Congressman Phil Gringrey of Georgia, who's comments about the acclaimed talk radio host seemed to be much more directed and more stinging than Steele's. I guess the question is, what's the difference between Gringrey and Steele, that made Rush respond to the new RNC Chairman with that amount of venom , yet give Gringrey the equivalent of a "nuggie"? What is it about Steele that aroused in Rush's spirit a cry of "HOW DARE YOU?" .... Okay, if you're like me it's not a hard question, but it is the 1 ton pink gorilla in the room.

Michael Steele is black, and was (s)elected as RNC Chair, not to lead, but to mislead blacks into the party. Now, Michael Steele has never really struck me as an "Uncle Tom" or an "Oreo" or any other colloquialism we've historically used to described black who essentially sell their souls to whites in power to position themselves... In fact, he has a style that gives you the impression that he could go to "the hood" and hold is own. His problem is that he's been working the black republican for so long and it's been working for him so well, that he began to believe his own rhetoric. He began to believe Rush Limbaugh and Sean Hannity's assertions that Republicans are the party that's truly concerned with the welfare of minorities because taking away public assistance and striking down affirmative action forces us to rely on ourselves for advancement, while the democrats and liberals want us to remain dependent on them for all our needs... After all, the playing field is level for anyone who's willing to work "work hard and play by the rules"

In believing that, he made the folly of actually believing that he was elected as the leader of his party, rather than token of his party. He made the mistake of not understanding that his party wanted to keep pace with their Democratic rivals that really and truly elected a black as their leader and expect him to be just that... You would think that he'd notice the coincidences in Sarah Palin bursting into the RNC spotlight after Hillary's history making campaign and now him being elected after Obama being elected, but he didn't because he's come to believe in the pseudo benevolence of the GOP and conservative movement .

Now, in my opinion Steele is an excellent choice as RNC chair, in fact he's the best choice because he's the best communicator they've got. But, I believe he's beginning to understand that he wasn't elected because he was the best qualified and worked the hardest to get his name and face out there (which could only be the case if conservatives actually practiced the principles they preach). He's beginning to realize that having four or five black faces to throw around gives conservatives cover from allegations of racism, just like having four or five issues that they opposed President Bush on gives them sufficient cover to say that they didn't spend the last eight years following him in lock-step. I think Steele now knows that they're content to have him be one of those black faces, as long as he KNOWS HIS PLACE... But, the bad news for Steele is that they are coming to the conclusion that he doesn't, and it's got him visibly rattled.

It's happening... The chorus of conservatives and republicans calling for him to step down are growing like "drill baby, drill" chants after his speech at the republican convention. It's not surprising that the first blow was dealt by one of the only three black members of the RNC calling for him to quit. Dr. Ada Fisher strikes me as bright and also capable, but at the same time it's not unreasonable for us to question whether or not she wants one of the few coveted slots alloted for minorities in the GOP. Among her criticisms is Steele's use of slang and urban speak as a part of his communications strategy.... I can understand her "beef", but it does bother me that they loved his use of slang last week, but somehow it's become an embarrassment.

The net affect of this entire affair is likely to be that Steele is rendered inept in his ability to recruit black to the Republican Party. I know that many see his willingness to apologize to Limbaugh for his "inarticulate" description of the radio giant, after Limbaughs direct and poignant insults as a step black... I mean back for us. They see Ada Fisher's outspoken call for Steele to resign as 'eating our own' and they see Limbaugh's rant against Steele and the subsequent crescendo or GOP'ers ready to criticize him as as indicative of how they truly think about us if we happen to get out of line.

This whole thing kinda reminds me of something that you might have seen in High School. You have the cool black kid, and the only one out of a group of cool white guys. The cool black kid is accepted by all the rest of the people in the school because he's with the cool white guys, in fact, he's even dating the white sister of one of the cool white guys.... Then he gets caught cheating on the white sister of the cool white guy and suddenly he's not the cool black guy anymore. He doesn't have the cool white friends anymore and everyone in the school has turned against him, even the uncool white guys that cheered for him as he led varsity basketball team to victory last week and even the few uncool black guys that secretly wandered "what's so special about him?"

Rev. Lowery's Inaugural Benediction Awakens Feelings Of The Oppressed White Man.... Gimme A Break!!!

“When brown can stick around”

“When yellow can be mellow”

“When the red man can be the head man”

"And when white will embrace what is right"

This part of Rev. Lowery's benediction is taken from a civil rights era saying that reads:

If your black stay back,

If your brown stick around,

If your white your all right!


To this, a number of prominent whites have expressed a deep offense and a feeling that they are socially oppressed white men, that must forever carry the burdens of those actions that their racist forefathers committed on their behalf and on the behalf of white Americans as a whole... Prominent whites like Don Imus (you know..."nappy headed hoes" Don Imus - who I actually like), Joe Scarborough, Tucker Carlson, I'm sure Glen Beck (you know... Glen Beck who asked the first Muslim man elected to congress to "...Prove to me that you are not working with our enemies")

Part of me wants to tell some of the white folk who took offense to Lowery's benediction, "Lighten Up"...  
Another part of me wants to explain the context of the statement in question to them in the hopes that they'll understand that there was no malice and no indictment of "the white man" in the statement (that whole portion of the prayer was to highlight that we are still overcomming, even with the progress that is represented by Obama's presidency)  

Another part wants to tell them "after 300 years of oppression and slavery and defacto and dejure segregation, you have the nerve to B!t@# about how that small statement, which originated from an old Jimc Crow era saying has SO offended you"... I think that that part offends me.  

Listening to the people on the radio who seem to have the most problem with it, like Joe Scarborough and DON IMUS (nuff said!) they're quick to say " how could he say that when white people put Obama in office"... but it hasn't dawned on them that the white people who put Obama in office aren't the ones that have a problem with Rev. Lowery's benediction... 

The Irony is that it is the whites that didn't want him in office, in the first place that have taken offense and are hiding behind the white people that did put him in office as a defense...  

To them I say, that just as all black people arent the same, all white folks aren't the same... All white folks aren't racist, but a lot still are, and if people like Don Imus (who I like, BTW) and Joe Scarborough and Rush Limbaugh are going to whine about those remarks at least have the courage to do it as the type of white person who didn't vote for Obama and stop trying to claim an overall "white man's" credit off of the backs of those whites who not only got Obama elected, but did so having the courage to embrace the racial atrocities committed on their behalf, by their forefathers.  

It Just kills me when there are discussions of race and all of a sudden, white men start sounding like MLK "I don't see color", "We should judge each other as an individual, not as a color", "I haven't oppressed anyone, why should I feel guilty"... But not one of them will have the courage to admit that if they were black the likelihood that they would be where they are now is dramatically decreased by lack of equality of opportunity in this country....  
This is the reason we should celebrate Obama's win cautiously...because there are many white people who truly do have a problem (whether serious or minor) with what Obama represents and will use this achievement to argue that everything is equal in America and because a black man can become president, and that we should concede that racism (not just the attitudes of the individual, but the social and economic structures that were put in place to maintain the racial hierarchy - which still exist in a mighty way- in this country) has been eradicated!... 

Remember Don Imus and Joe Scarborough, Obama called for us to have an open honest discussion about race

Lighten Up Liberals!!!...GEEZ!

I have severely neglected the blog because I'm finishing the editing of my short film, but there are some things that require that I take a break from that so that I can put in my 2 cents... The most recent thing is the report that liberals are up in arms over President  Elect Obama's choice to have Pastor Rick Warren to speak at his inauguration.  To them I replied on the Huffington Post thread:

Give me a Friggin Break! I'm a progressive...liberal...lefty or whatever you want to call it, but some of us are really starting to pi$$ me off with this constant whining and complaining about every little thing that Obama does, that is centrist or not to the left! I don't have a problem with Rick Warren... even though I don't agree with his positions I appreciate the tone with which he conducts himself and his discourse when speaking about said issues, which he holds as a matter of faith.... 

Think about it... When Hannity and Limbaugh and O'Riley were chastising Obama for being "associated" with Rev. Wright, Bill Ayers and whoever else they could find... we were quick to praise Obama for being able to break bread with those whom he disagreed with... we compared him to Jesus for being able to be friendly with those whom have questionable pasts, but not necessarily share their pasts....

Now look at us... HYPOCRITES! If anything why not try to look at Rick Warren being there in the same light we used to defend him against the right wing attacks... What we need is for the right wing in this country to take a lesson from Rick Warren's decorum and conduct on how to express disagreement without being disagreeable and venomous, which is what many of the right (preachers included) do... And the last thing we need is to give them any fodder by becoming their far left equivalent.

It's not like he chose Pat Robertson!.... Lighten Up!

Investing in Tears

"Death gotta be easy 'cause life is hard." This line was uttered by 50 cent in his song, "Many Men." There are a lot of people in the world who have never heard this song, but would whole hearterdly agree with 50's premise. Look no farther than the December issue of Men's Health magazine. With a collection of readers who wouldn't hesitate to drop Bobby McFarren's name in a "greatest rapper ever debate", it's safe to say that 50's line wasn't the influence in the December 2008's article on male suicide. Regardless of inspiration, some of the figures are no less than alarming. The fact that the Golden Gate Bridge averages a jumper every other week since its construction in 1937 speaks volumes to the fact that there are alot of us who aren't handling our stresses well. Factor in addictions to alcohol, sex, pain killers, illegal drugs, and various other vices, and it furthers the fact that many of us have problems dealing with adverse conditions.... Read more.

No Communion for You!!!!


I try to stay out of politics because it's not my arena. I'm not a conspiracy theorist, but I've never believed government to be of the people, for the people or by the people. This year however, politics and religion met like I've never seen before, and that intersection was often ugly. What bothers me however, has been the church's role in this ugliness.

All too often, it seemed that many Christians were willing to put aside their Christianity to defend their conservatism. Many preachers stood in their pulpits and preached lies and hate toward Obama as a man. I don't wish to relive those arguments, but it is interesting considering that the bible says that from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. If Obama's stand on abortion, or some democrat's stand on gay marriage led you to vote republican then say that. If you believe in John McCain's economic plan over Obama's then say that. 

But when a preacher stands in a pulpit and proclaims overtly or covertly that Obama is a Muslim terroist sympathizer for wanting to pursue diplomacy in the Middle East or  that support for him "constitutes material cooperation with intrinsic evilbecause of his stance on abortion; those words are not spoken from an abundance of love and truth in the heart. The bible tells us to pray for those in authority over us. That command is no less enforceable when the guy in charge isn't the one you voted for... Read more

The butler sees a new White House

This is a touching LA Times Story about an African American butler who served in the White House for over three decades:

Reporting from Washington -- For more than three decades, Eugene Allen worked in the White House, a black man unknown to the headlines. During some of those years, harsh segregation laws lay upon the land.

He trekked home every night to his wife, Helene, who kept him out of her kitchen.

 At the White House, he worked closer to the dirty dishes than to the Oval Office. Helene didn't care; she just beamed with pride.

President Truman called him Gene. President Ford liked to talk golf with him. He saw eight presidential administrations come and go, often working six days a week.

"I never missed a day of work," Allen said.

He was there while racial history was made: Brown vs. Board of Education, the Little Rock school crisis, the 1963 March on Washington, the cities burning, the civil rights bills, the assassinations... Read the whole story

Do You Do Your Homework?

Look at what the bible says are the characteristics of a Godly man... It tells us that a Godly man must be able to teach, and that he must be able to instruct those who oppose him.  In a previous blog post, I wrote about the tradition of tithing. There were some who expressed disagreement with the blog entry. I'm not interested in arguing the points as my blog can still be found on this site, and each point has hyperlinked scripture behind it. The question that I pose however, is do you have the ability to instruct? If you didn't agree with it, could you, from the scriptures, tell me where I was either wrong or misapplying God's word; or did you simply toss the entry aside, not thinking about it because it did not fit into what you already believe?...Could you instruct?... Read More.

Speechless in SoCal

To my memory, there have been 4 occasions in my whole life where I was left completely speechless. Let's see, one of them was when the church doors opened and I saw my best friend walk through escorted by her dad to declare with me that our love would continue to eternity. Then, I'll never forget the first time I spread "I Can't Believe it's not Butter" on my toast because really, I couldn't believe it was not butter. Then, there was that day someone challenged me to name the three times I've been speechless in my life. And then there was last night. 

Before plopping down on our couch to enjoy my Pad See Ew and Gyoza from Thai Boom (I love that name) and flipping through the cycle of NBC, MSNBC and CNN in the evening, I spent a day trying to pretend that this historic day was not a historic day at all. Understand that I was working from home on election day, and if I allowed myself to keep thinking about what was happening I would have been in front of the tv a lot sooner with two laptops beside me auto refreshing their browsers on CNN and Digg for the stories that were developing. Oddly enough, that technically is not what I get paid to do. So I put my head down, turned all media off in the house and went into a fantasy world that said that the most important thing happening was this status report and these changes that the client requested on the project. What didn't help my fantasy world was the frequent robocalls from Magic Johnson encouraging me to do my part and vote for the candidate he supports for Los Angeles county supervisor - Bernard Parks. After the 4th time in the day I started talking over the recording -

ME:   "Hello?"

HIM: "Hi, this is Magic Johnson and I want to enc -"

ME:   "Stop calling my house Magic Johnson"

HIM: "-age you to vote for Ber-"

ME"-nard Parks, I know Magic Johnson, you already called me. Leave my family alone Magic Johnson"

HIM: "-ard Parks and help us make the positi-"

ME!: "Magic Johnson where is your wife Cookie and does she know you're playing on the phone all  day? Don't you have any meetings at a Starbucks or T.G.I. Friday's or any of the movie theaters you own"... Read More

Barack Obama Won The Superbowl... And I Met Bobby


"Neighborhod's are now hoods, cause nobody's neighbors
Just animals surviving with that animal behavior"
Posdnous of De La Soul
s...Anyway, I turn off the TV at around 12:45 am and prepare to turn in... the gravity of Baracks win not having hit me yet... I slipped on my pants and told my wife, "I'll be right back". I dash out the house and, like magic, the significance of this moment in history energizes me. I'm excited, buzzing like a cat with cat-nip, so much so that I can't stand to wait for the elevator.


I run down 12 flights of stairs and the screams and honks grow louder as I step outside the lobby. A couple of people are talking to the building security guards with a subtle glow on their faces. I smile as I rush past them, and as I made my way toward Myrtle Ave. I felt like I was walking to the center of Times Square on New Year's Eve... So did Bobby.

Bobby was leaving my building around the same time as me. Bobby was walking toward Myrtle Ave. like me. Bobby had the same look of pride on his face that I wore on mine. He was black like me and even had dreads (dreadlocks) like me... Bobby and I had a kindred spirit, but like so many of us do each day, we walked in the same direction and didn't speak to one another. But it was something about this moment in history that mandated a CHANGE in our behaviors and our kindred spirits were forced together by the weight of history.... Read More

Voter 200... An Election Piece by Stu

It was my first time voting, and I don't usually do artsy-fartsy stuff, but here you go...

Voter 200

by Stu

I filed into my local municipality this morning.

At 7:30 am in the small town of Lindenwold, NJ I was already voter number 200.

I’d been in this court room before, but never like this.

No requests for a lawyer.

No silent sighs of traffic fines and

Fines from not being able to pay those fines.

No, something was different today.

A mother took her two daughters behind the curtain with her.

Who are you voting for Mommy?

Sound it out the teacher told her young Pupil.

Sound it out baby girl.

O-BAM-A she said.

I looked around at the people in line with me

Some dressed in house coats

Some covered in tattoos

Some hoping that hope floats

Some with the paper open reading the news

One lady quietly sat there... Read More

 
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